We all have least one of those "friends" that talk badly about us behind our backs. They have those big egos where they talk to make them look better but it just proves how jealous they are of you. They're annoying, arne't they? Well I have one and she just loves getting drunk to talk to the wrong person about me. This post is about her jealous ways.
No names are named in my blog for privacy issues and safety.
Here how it is, I been friends with this person for years (since 6th grade) and I always been a good friend to her, though she wasn't a good friend to me by bringing me down by lowering my confidence in myself and her opinions were brutal, though I stayed her friend due to i valued friendship too much. Anyway, well since we graduated we drifted apart and lived our own lives. When we did talk it was regular chitchat and it was short. She only talked to me when she had time, though I tried talking to her. Well, it's been a year now since I last spoken to her (back in August when she learned I was engaged) but unfortuantly it was a month ago I heard the first time that she been talking badly behind my back for years, and worse it was to my fiance (who she is hassling whenever he gets online). She is drunk when she contacts him and automatically starts complaining despite the many times he tells her to stop and tries ignoring her.
The first insult I learned she said was about when I broke up with my ex years ago, she had said "She should never had a boyfriend just like her parents wanted" Which isnt' surprising since she said long ago that she and he dated and commenting to me when I first dated him that "I can't believe you're dating my cast off". So she wasn't fond of my first relationship and had to speak badly about it. Though I do have to say she has many exes through the years and she always had some sort of boyfriend, so why does she care who I dated?
The second insult I heard was back in August 2011 right after I got engaged (which she got engaged a week later after I did once she learned about mine) she got drunk (once again) contacing my fiance saying that he's making a mistake when he "could have the whole buffett instead of the weak salad" refering to her as the "buffett" and I the "weak salad", and then she says that I'm "uglier and less fortuante" than her. What friend does this? To hit on another's man and talk trash about them? Not to mention she was already engaged herself! I let it go since she was drunk and without the proof (it was deleted) she would just deny it.
Well months passed and here we are today when I learned a third time she became drunk and a slip of the tongue to my fiance once again (he really needs to block her...). She started complaining about her life and how much of a "chicken" I am. I ask you how am I the chicken? Last I checked I had no feathers nor a beak, and unlike her I'm not the one too scared to say say those insults to my face.
See how jealousy makes a friend a horrible fiend? Friends like this aren't friends but insecure cowards who have to bring down others to make themselves feel better about their own life. I will say I'm not offended by her words because it's pointless to be, I just want her to stop hassling my fiance, but I know she'll get what's coming to her. I am not intimidated by her either cause by her actions, I am far better than she will ever be. I have a good life compared to hers, I have people who do love me where they refuse to believe her ugly words, I have a loving fiance who will defend my name no matter what, I have a loving heart and a nice personality that makes me beautiful, and I have a bright future. So tell me how is she more 'fortuante" than me? Though it does confuse me why she keeps talkign about me? I haven't talked to her in a year so where does she get the right to keep bringing up my name? I spoke no harsh words about her nor do I do any actions for her to complain about. I think she's obsessed with me to be honest since she is so jealous that she has to talk about me and her being drunk has destroyed her common sense cause she doesnt' realize that whatever she says to my fiance will get back to me.
If you do have a "friend" like this, just remember that they are no friend and they are just jealous of you. Jealousy is an ugly trait and worse when people act upon it, but dont' let it bring you down cause it just means you are far better than them. Embrace it cause as the saying goes "what comes around goes around" that jealous person will get what's coming to them in a matter of time. Let karma deal with them as you dance in the glory of beign better since that jealous person already just proved you are better by talking about you. I do advise if it does get worse confront them about it maturaly and stop being friends with them cause friends dont' talk trash behind friends backs.
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