Hey folks! It’s two rants in one day, and this
one is regarding family because family is annoying the hell out of me too.
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I want to first say, I love my family, but there
is no loyalty and respect for certain members and the simplest tiny things can
grow into rage if they continue to keep happening. And a person can only take
so much without ranting. And like my family who ranted to me, I need to rant in
my blog because I’m getting fed up.
First off if you are living in someone else’s
house then you should help out with the chores. You make a mess then you need
to clean it up than letting it sit there for others to get. It’s not damn fair
otherwise. And if you eat our food then please be nice enough to help pay for
groceries since you have food stamps coming in. Yes, you buy food for yourself
but you also eating our food and groceries are coming out of our pockets. I’m
damn tired of the chores being more than usual because there’s an extra person
living with us. I know you’re helping out some, but “some” doesn’t help in the
long run. Why is it so hard to clean your dishes at night after we cleaned
ours? Why do you use our saucers to feed the cats and not wash them? Why don’t
you re-use the paper plates than throwing them away after one use? They’re
rewashable so use them multiple times to feed YOUR cats that stay on our porch
now. And why is it so damn hard to put the toilet paper BACK on its dispenser
when you take it off? Why is the table so messy? Why is your stuff everywhere?!
I have no table room for my purse anymore so I gotta keep it in my room. I have
no room in the small bathroom anymore because your stuff is laid out.
Secondly, if you are going to ask my parents for
advice stop getting pissed with them because you don’t’ like what they say.
They know the work world more than you do. Unlike you, we actually have to go
out to work and school so we can’t go on all these random drivings like you do.
We simply don’t have the gas money and we’re tired. As my dad said “take your
own car”. And it is your car, not my cousins! So stop letting them drive it to
the ground when they already have their vehicles. And stop damn pawning stuff!
That’s not a good way to get money and you are selling something you need, like
your laptop. IF you miss your laptop so much then why the hell did you pawn it?
Stop paying off bills that don’t concern anyone anymore. I’m sorry, but granny
is no longer with us and the bills she had are now void. They don’t need to be
paid off and I really believe she wouldn’t want you using your ONLY money to
pay off something that will make no difference. Use that money to buy your food
and your bills instead. We’re in debt but you don’t see us paying off bills
that pose no threat to us. It’s all about priorities and yours don’t make
sense. You are not going to be independent in this world if you can’t get your
priorities straight to know which bills you NEED to pay and which ones you need
to LET GO.
Thirdly, mom please stop obsessing over cleaning
the house when people we know come over. The house is alright and my fiancé is
here to see me, not the house. No one is going to judge you if the house is not
perfectly shining and sparkling clean where the queen of England will give you
an award! Every damn house in existence isn’t that damn clean. So what if we
haven’t gotten to mop this week? So what if the carpet has a little dirt
scattered around? The world won’t end! I would understand if it’s someone we
don’t know but this is my fiancé’, a guy who wants to just pick me up and hang
out. Are you that obsessed you can’t see that? I’ll clean up, yes, but I’m
fucking tired of cleaning the house to head to toe cause “company” is coming
over. I know this company, this company isn’t going to be judgmental over a
house. It’s a house. Everyone has one. Please get over it and stop stressing to
the max over it!
Fourthly, dad, stop lecturing me. I get sleepy in
the mornings so stop damn telling me “you better wake yourself up!” because it’s
not fair for YOU to complain about being tired but I can’t fall asleep in the
car cause I’m sleepy in the mornings! I don’t care if you’re joking or serious,
it’s getting annoying. I do get enough sleep, but it’s waking up 5:30-6am that
will make anyone damn sleepy. Stop calling me lazy if I let something slide, I will
get to it later and sometimes I forget things. So do you. Stop taking your
frustration out on me when you’re in a pissed off mood. You do apologize later
but the damage is already done and I’m sick of getting yelled at for little
things. Also when I’m mad with you don’t go “don’t be hatin’!” because that
pisses me off more. Like you get mad with me, I have the right to get mad at
you too. I love you but sometimes you can have hypocritical traits. And those
are pushing my limits.
There is no loyalty in family. Guess what, you
can’t sue us based on a damn lie. Kim didn’t fall off our steps breaking her
foot, she slipped in the yard hurting her toe, and that was a month ago. Sandra
has the text-message proof of Kim telling her what happened, so can it Larry!
Don’t be saying “She fell off YOUR porch” acting like it’s our fault. And we
know you. You’d do anything for money, even turning on your own family. But
hey, we’re not really related by blood, so guess we’re not family? Stop acting
so good to people when they pay you and then cold to them if they don’t have
any money left. Complain all you want about my cousins because you’re no better
than them. Granny “babied” you too and all you did get prescription drugs and
money from her with your sob stories. Oh you talk all big and bad but it’s all
talk. Don’t mess with this family. Stop trying to start another family war.
Why oh why do does my aunt defend my cousins?
They damn treated her badly and obviously shown they don’t’ care, but you still
defend them by praising Charlotte? All she’s done is snub my parents, talks bad
about others behind their backs, didn’t even come to the wake nor funeral of
the woman who raised her, and acts like an immature spoiled brat. Not to
mention there is a good chance she’s the one with Larry that canceled granny’s
last check out of spite so you won’t get the money. You even believed it, so
why do you defend them when you see how bad they can be? Stop babying them! They
are grown adults who need a reality lesson that they can’t be selfish toward
family cause they’re asses will be defending for themselves.
I don’t care who you are but I’m NOT going to
baby feed you and let you live off of me. You are going to do your share and
cooperate than slack thinking I’m going to do all the work. No. that’s not how
it works. Family shouldn’t be like this, and I refuse to put up with family
drama all over again. Granny isn’t here and the houses will be divided because
the supporter is gone. Both of those households will be at each other’s throats
when they’re low on money and drugs. It’s sad to know we can’t pull closer
together but farther apart.
I love my family but this is not a functional
family. We are not going to deal with two households against us over immature
drama. We aren’t going to support someone who isn’t pulling her weight and
obsessed with finding a job when she can’t help out more around the house. I’m
not going to deal with tension AGAIN in this household because my aunt is
getting on my parents’ nerves again. I’m not going to babysit no one. I’m not
going to live my life around this family. I have a life of my own and I will
live that life so don’t pull me down with you. It’s my life so stop telling me
how to live it. Stop giving me “advice’ about my life. It’s mine. So please
focus on yours and let me live. Enough of all this annoyance!
OK, end of this rant. Majority of this has been
over the last two months that’s just racked up. Things aren’t as bad as back in
January, but they’re bad in other ways. Things changed and they’re going to
keep changing. My aunt is living with us now since granny’s passing back in
late December, and she has no bed anymore. We’re in debt and gotta pay back the
loans we took out to pay for the funeral, and none of the other households
chipped in. Opinions clashed, things are different. Things are just different
and people are getting stressed again with each other. There is no peace in
family at all.
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