Judgemental Idiots - Opinions clashing and the bashing

Hey folks! It's been awhile since I ranted! And be prepared for a WHOLE bunch of rants because I cranked up some things that annoy the hell out of me lately. This entry is geared toward opinions clashing and the bashing.

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Alright what is the deal with all the bashing? Why can't people accept that each of us are individuals with different views of the world? Why can’t we agree to disagree and move on with our lives? Seriously, why can’t we? Are people that prideful and arrogant that they think their egotistical minds are always the correct choice so they must bash someone to prove how “wrong” they are?

Fiction bashing. How stupid can this become? “OMG your character is a Mary-sue! I hate Mary-sues!” First off, the term “Mary-sue” was a character that was extremely perfect in every way and was never hated. That does not mean if a person’s character has an unusual trait they automatically equal a “Mary-sue”, and even if they did, who the hell cares? It’s their character not yours. And I doubt your character is even better, so get off your high horse and leave people alone regarding the characters they create. It’s none of your business what they do with their characters. And this also applies to stories. If they are writing or drawing for themselves then they don’t care if you have an issue with it.

Being a loli/shoto-con equals pedophilia? By that logic everyone who killed in a video game are murderers. It’s FICTION which is NOT real, can’t they get it through their heads? A lolli/shot-con is a person who likes lolis/shotos in an anime regardless of the reason why. Lolis/shotos is a term from Japan given to characters who have a child-like appearance. So if you like the appearance of these characters, there are people who consider you a pedophile. How stupid is this? Are people that deranged they can’t separate fiction from reality? What are you going to go to every door of a loli-con and arrest them for liking a fictional character? The police will laugh at you! That’s how stupid you are sounding. By your logic I’m also a murderer for killing people in video games, an animal-abuser for stomping turtles in Mario, a terrorists for blowing up buildings in Command & Conquer, A bully for beating up people in Tekken, a psychopath for loving the demonic world of Silent Hill, a cannibal-supporter for liking werewolves, zombies and vampires, An evil person because I love watching horror movies where scary things happen to people. Look at the horrible person I am, take me away to jail for liking fictional things! Better jump off that high horse of yours because I bet all these apply to you too so shut up about fictional things that have nothing to do with reality. You are a sick person if you can’t separate fiction from reality.

Next topic! Religion differences. First off there are more than two sides to religion, there are least nine different kinds in this world so instead of arguing who’s right and who’s wrong, why can’t we just all shut up and live our own lives? So what if someone posts atheist posts? If they aren’t bashing then who cares? So what if a Christian posts about not believing in certain rights? As long as they’re not bashing then let them be. Yes people are going to disagree with someone else’s life but that’s not your problem what they think. Get over it and leave the person alone. You are a hypocrite if you preach “acceptances!” when you can’t’ accept someone may not agree with what you say, so you bash that person. Bashing to end bashing is hypocritical regardless of who you are. If you are going to rip someone’s life away from them because you don’t like it, then you are no better than the ones you dislike. Live and let live even if you disagree with something. If you can’t do that, then you are a hypocrite.

                “OMG you’re sick!” for what? Just cause people like a certain fetish? There’s thousands of fetishes in the world and some I do find extremely creepy, but to each their own. And I bet your hands aren’t clean either for liking some stuff too. Sure I agree fetishes should be kept private instead of social sites, but don’t condemn them if they aren’t harming anyone with their fetishes. Maybe I should go into your closet and find all your dirty secrets calling you sick too, like that? Then leave people alone.

                “OMG look at that man letting his baby watch him play video games! What a bad parent!” Seriously? You’re judging a man because he is playing one video game with his kid? Do you live with this man to know for a fact he’s a bad parent? No, you do not. You are looking at a picture online of this man knowing absolutely nothing but what you see. There is no solid evidence this will harm the baby, and it’s a screen that’s located everywhere, so are you going to bash someone who goes into Walmart’s technology aisle letting their baby stare at all those televisions screens? Are you going to scream “child-abuse!” when a parents lets their baby stare at all those television screens in Walmart as they pass by them? That’s exactly what you’re doing to that man in the picture. For all you know he could be an active parent that showers his child with love. So he lets his baby look at a screen? Then every parent in existence is bad if they let their kid look at a screen.

                “OMG you like that? That is so overrated!” So? Just because something is very popular doesn’t mean I’m going to stop liking it. I don’t give a shit if you hate it, but I don’t draw because of you, I draw because of me. And I’m not going to stop liking something because you hate how popular it is. Get over it and move on with your life. Cause no matter where you go there will ALWAYS be something overly popular or “overrated” and I bet you’re going to throw a tantrum about that too, bashing on people who like it. I could care less if someone likes something I hate because it’s not them I dislike, and I know how to ignore things. It’s called being mature to ignore what you hate than going to the fans and bashing on them. Maybe you should stop going on the internet if you are going to hate on everything that’s “overrated”.

                So whether it be beliefs, likes/dislikes, religion views, lifestyles, fetishes, or whatever makes us different, people should NOT bash it. Why? Because you’d be a bully and an ass for bashing on something that doesn’t concern you when that person is not harming anyone. I could care less what they like, and I will let them live because I know I want the same treatment. If they aren’t harming another then why does it matter? And don’t give me this “You’re just supporting so-in-so!” No, I’m supporting the right to live in peace. Fiction is fiction and opinions are opinions, they don’t require you to be an abusive jerk. Fiction will NEVER be real so if you are enjoying something made-up without going into the world and doing it. Fiction is merely entertainment. And if you can’t accept opinions how do you suppose people will accept your opinions? If you say someone’s opinion is “worthless” then so is yours. So everyone jump off your high-horses or gladly let me beat you off with my bat because I’m sick of people bashing others because they have a different opinion to what is “right” in the world. There is no “right” nor “wrong” in the world when it comes to opinions of lifestyles. Everyone is innocent until proven guilty by the law, and I don’t see myself going to jail because my love of fictional things or how I live my life when it’s not harming anyone. And I hope you enjoy laughter because you will get laughed at by the police if you try to take someone to jail over opinions and fiction. I’m laughing at you now.

No such thing as a peaceful family

Hey folks! It’s two rants in one day, and this one is regarding family because family is annoying the hell out of me too.

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I want to first say, I love my family, but there is no loyalty and respect for certain members and the simplest tiny things can grow into rage if they continue to keep happening. And a person can only take so much without ranting. And like my family who ranted to me, I need to rant in my blog because I’m getting fed up.

First off if you are living in someone else’s house then you should help out with the chores. You make a mess then you need to clean it up than letting it sit there for others to get. It’s not damn fair otherwise. And if you eat our food then please be nice enough to help pay for groceries since you have food stamps coming in. Yes, you buy food for yourself but you also eating our food and groceries are coming out of our pockets. I’m damn tired of the chores being more than usual because there’s an extra person living with us. I know you’re helping out some, but “some” doesn’t help in the long run. Why is it so hard to clean your dishes at night after we cleaned ours? Why do you use our saucers to feed the cats and not wash them? Why don’t you re-use the paper plates than throwing them away after one use? They’re rewashable so use them multiple times to feed YOUR cats that stay on our porch now. And why is it so damn hard to put the toilet paper BACK on its dispenser when you take it off? Why is the table so messy? Why is your stuff everywhere?! I have no table room for my purse anymore so I gotta keep it in my room. I have no room in the small bathroom anymore because your stuff is laid out.

Secondly, if you are going to ask my parents for advice stop getting pissed with them because you don’t’ like what they say. They know the work world more than you do. Unlike you, we actually have to go out to work and school so we can’t go on all these random drivings like you do. We simply don’t have the gas money and we’re tired. As my dad said “take your own car”. And it is your car, not my cousins! So stop letting them drive it to the ground when they already have their vehicles. And stop damn pawning stuff! That’s not a good way to get money and you are selling something you need, like your laptop. IF you miss your laptop so much then why the hell did you pawn it? Stop paying off bills that don’t concern anyone anymore. I’m sorry, but granny is no longer with us and the bills she had are now void. They don’t need to be paid off and I really believe she wouldn’t want you using your ONLY money to pay off something that will make no difference. Use that money to buy your food and your bills instead. We’re in debt but you don’t see us paying off bills that pose no threat to us. It’s all about priorities and yours don’t make sense. You are not going to be independent in this world if you can’t get your priorities straight to know which bills you NEED to pay and which ones you need to LET GO.

Thirdly, mom please stop obsessing over cleaning the house when people we know come over. The house is alright and my fiancé is here to see me, not the house. No one is going to judge you if the house is not perfectly shining and sparkling clean where the queen of England will give you an award! Every damn house in existence isn’t that damn clean. So what if we haven’t gotten to mop this week? So what if the carpet has a little dirt scattered around? The world won’t end! I would understand if it’s someone we don’t know but this is my fiancé’, a guy who wants to just pick me up and hang out. Are you that obsessed you can’t see that? I’ll clean up, yes, but I’m fucking tired of cleaning the house to head to toe cause “company” is coming over. I know this company, this company isn’t going to be judgmental over a house. It’s a house. Everyone has one. Please get over it and stop stressing to the max over it!

Fourthly, dad, stop lecturing me. I get sleepy in the mornings so stop damn telling me “you better wake yourself up!” because it’s not fair for YOU to complain about being tired but I can’t fall asleep in the car cause I’m sleepy in the mornings! I don’t care if you’re joking or serious, it’s getting annoying. I do get enough sleep, but it’s waking up 5:30-6am that will make anyone damn sleepy. Stop calling me lazy if I let something slide, I will get to it later and sometimes I forget things. So do you. Stop taking your frustration out on me when you’re in a pissed off mood. You do apologize later but the damage is already done and I’m sick of getting yelled at for little things. Also when I’m mad with you don’t go “don’t be hatin’!” because that pisses me off more. Like you get mad with me, I have the right to get mad at you too. I love you but sometimes you can have hypocritical traits. And those are pushing my limits.

There is no loyalty in family. Guess what, you can’t sue us based on a damn lie. Kim didn’t fall off our steps breaking her foot, she slipped in the yard hurting her toe, and that was a month ago. Sandra has the text-message proof of Kim telling her what happened, so can it Larry! Don’t be saying “She fell off YOUR porch” acting like it’s our fault. And we know you. You’d do anything for money, even turning on your own family. But hey, we’re not really related by blood, so guess we’re not family? Stop acting so good to people when they pay you and then cold to them if they don’t have any money left. Complain all you want about my cousins because you’re no better than them. Granny “babied” you too and all you did get prescription drugs and money from her with your sob stories. Oh you talk all big and bad but it’s all talk. Don’t mess with this family. Stop trying to start another family war.

Why oh why do does my aunt defend my cousins? They damn treated her badly and obviously shown they don’t’ care, but you still defend them by praising Charlotte? All she’s done is snub my parents, talks bad about others behind their backs, didn’t even come to the wake nor funeral of the woman who raised her, and acts like an immature spoiled brat. Not to mention there is a good chance she’s the one with Larry that canceled granny’s last check out of spite so you won’t get the money. You even believed it, so why do you defend them when you see how bad they can be? Stop babying them! They are grown adults who need a reality lesson that they can’t be selfish toward family cause they’re asses will be defending for themselves.

I don’t care who you are but I’m NOT going to baby feed you and let you live off of me. You are going to do your share and cooperate than slack thinking I’m going to do all the work. No. that’s not how it works. Family shouldn’t be like this, and I refuse to put up with family drama all over again. Granny isn’t here and the houses will be divided because the supporter is gone. Both of those households will be at each other’s throats when they’re low on money and drugs. It’s sad to know we can’t pull closer together but farther apart.

I love my family but this is not a functional family. We are not going to deal with two households against us over immature drama. We aren’t going to support someone who isn’t pulling her weight and obsessed with finding a job when she can’t help out more around the house. I’m not going to deal with tension AGAIN in this household because my aunt is getting on my parents’ nerves again. I’m not going to babysit no one. I’m not going to live my life around this family. I have a life of my own and I will live that life so don’t pull me down with you. It’s my life so stop telling me how to live it. Stop giving me “advice’ about my life. It’s mine. So please focus on yours and let me live. Enough of all this annoyance!

OK, end of this rant. Majority of this has been over the last two months that’s just racked up. Things aren’t as bad as back in January, but they’re bad in other ways. Things changed and they’re going to keep changing. My aunt is living with us now since granny’s passing back in late December, and she has no bed anymore. We’re in debt and gotta pay back the loans we took out to pay for the funeral, and none of the other households chipped in. Opinions clashed, things are different. Things are just different and people are getting stressed again with each other. There is no peace in family at all.