I am an honest and genuine person so when I call someone "stupid" or "idiot" then you know I mean it, and it has to be bad when I insult someone since those that know me will know I rarely insult people. When I call someone Stupid/idiot is because they commit actions over and over without thinking about the coincenqunces of their actions and then whine about it. We all know people like this, they screw up and come crying for help. Sadly, I know couple of them and few of them always comes to me for advice hoping I can "fix" the situation. Well after telling so much advice and the person doesn't listen to it, there's not much I can do.
People that make the same mistakes over and over are truly idiots because they don't learn from their mistakes even when it's pointed out to them and people warned them beforehand. Why are people like this? I'm still trying to figure out the answer to that question, but I have noticed the most common mistakes are in the romance section of life. I know most everyone wants to find their true love and spend their lives in happiness, but some people desire that so much that they rush into relationships without thinking and most times it ends horribly. I see it all the time and it baffles me with certain people who knows what they're doing wrong but continue to do it; such as rushing things.
Like this one person has "fell in love" with eight different people in his/her life and was engaged to least five of them because he/she believed he/she has found the "one" with each person when the relationship just started. This person kept rushing things like that and all the relationships ended sour, because he/she didn't think. When you first meet someone you will feel infatuation which is similar to love but it's not, it's a giddy feeling that leaves you like on cloud nine, but some people mistake this feeling for love and jump head first into the relationship planning on getting married. They don't take it slow and let hte relationship build up so they will know their feelings are true. I seen this with many people I know and they still make that same mistake over and over, then whining about it.
But what annoys me the most about all this is how i give advice to these people hoping to help but they don't listen to me and when it turns out I was correct they are already whining about it and making up excuses for their failures. Excuses such as "well I wasn't really in love, I was just lying to myself" or "They were just using me". It's never their fault in their minds and then they find someone else doing the exact same thing over expecting this time it will be different. Then when that goes badly they come back whining again. It's a never ending cycle that makes me mad cause when I try to help they don't listen very well. They can't own up to their mistakes and make it right in the future.
Well all I can say about these people without ranting more is stop giving advice to them and let them figure it out on their own. It's their own fault for getting into the mess they're in cause they have been warned and they ignored that warning, so they need to stop crying and own up to it then don't make the same mistakes again. That's the only thing you can do with these people cause if they don't listen, then why give more advice? They are idiots and as a saying goes "you can't fix stupid" which is true when they don't change their ways.
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