Oh dear
lordy the drama I see! Well, majority of them are young teenagers so it’s
common for them to act this immature and idiotic. Let me try to enlighten others
where they learn from these idiotic drama-central mistakes.
Everything is kept anonymous for privacy and safety reasons.
First off, when you make “call-out”
journals (online walls of text that you post) that is STARTING drama regardless if it says “I’m DONE. THIS DRAMA
ENDS” or blah-blah, of another person who wronged you or someone you know in
some way. It’s bringing attention to the issue again regardless of what you
say. You are in fact NOT “letting it go” you are putting more flame to the
fire. Best thing to do when someone does something you hate? Ignore them! And
if it’s harming you in some way then REPORT them. Do NOT make journal/comments
about the person over and over and expect others to think you are “letting it
go” because you are not. And secondly, “old comments” aren’t 2 days old, 2 days
old comments are RECENT. Yes, it’s in the past but it doesn’t make them old
comments enough to say “that comment was TWO days ago, EVERYONE has moved on”
if you are making a video response to so-called person and say this, yeah
you’re not moved on and those aren’t old comments. Least give it a week or
longer to be considered old enough to say that. Also this applies to “Aw someone
blocked me! Boo-hoo, how awful (sarcasm)” which is just starting more drama and
proves that you’re making a big deal out of being blocked by a particular
person. Again, just damn ignore it and stop bringing attention to it.
Second off, just because someone
has a different opinion of you don’t make them a horrible person or that you
have to hate them. Unless that person has harmed or harassed you/others, that
gives you no right to bash on their name. To say you “don’t Watch me, i don’t’
want people I hate watching me!” because someone told you something that
disagreed with you, you are a selfish brat. If you don’t want someone watching
you then ask them nicely, or just block them (it’s horrible but saves on
drama). And why hate on someone who’s being civil with you? You are a seriously
messed up individual if you are constantly kicking out friends who say
something you don’t like instead of talking it out. Don’t complain that you have no
friends if you are constantly blocking them out of your life because you can’t
handle those who have different voices than you.
Third off, don’t harass or tell
others to harass anyone! Yes, there are people who are horrible and say
horrible things, but making a journal/comment where you allow others to
constantly say horrible things about/to this person is making you a hypocrite.
You never bully the bully. Again REPORT and IGNORE. Yes, you’re allowed to have
an opinion and free speech, but you are NOT allowed to harass another
individual just because they say horrible things. Seriously, that just makes
you a hypocrite and the same as them. It’s fine to warn others to be wary of a
person, but never drop down to their level. And again, this only adds more fuel
to the fire when you’re trash talking them on a PUBLIC site where everyone
(including them) to see it. You’re only adding more fuel to the fire that will
lead to an explosion if no one learns how to ignore it and report. Also, if you
are calling someone an “attention whore” while complaining in MULTIPLE comments
about this person, then, sweetie, you are also seeking attention, therefore
again, making you look like a hypocrite. Learn to shut up about the person and
move on!
Fourth off, stop bringing others
into your personal drama. That’s fine to confide in a friend, but when you
start posting it online where everyone can see and telling others who this
person is and every single detail, then you are making an army against this
person. And people will act on their own will so they will say something to
this person and pour gasoline onto the fire. So if it’s personal and you don’t
want drama, keep it off the damn web.
Fifth off,
if know you have drama with an individual in the past then why the fuck do
you continue to watch them again? Yes, it’s fine giving other chances but when
it’s PASSED the 3rd chance then you need to let them go! Stop
interacting with them. Stop watching them. Stop trying to be friends when in
fact you both are known to cause drama that will escalate very quickly. Don’t
“clear out my blocked list” to try to make amends with others by setting up a
place you can talk over and over. IF it didn’t’ happen well the first few
times, then darling it’s NOT ever going to happen. There is a reason the
blocked list exists, please learn to use it wisely than as a door to slam in
others faces and expect to open it back up again to them. Just stay the fuck
away from them. If you aren’t interacting with the person then your drama will
cut down a lot. However, if they are genuinely sorry for something then yes you
can forgive them and try again, but if it doesn’t end then you need to end the
relationship before more drama starts. Don’t’ hang with people who stress you
out.
The internet isn’t’ your personal journal where you can dump all your
secrets and expect others to obey the privacy that you claim you have. It
doesn’t work that way. The internet is PUBLIC for EVERYONE to see, and if you
wouldn’t leave your real-life journal open in a middle of a crowded room with
people staring at you, then why the hell would you post it online? It’s the same
thing. Nothing is secret. Nothing is sacred. Nothing is private! IF you don’t
want others commenting then don’t post it to begin with. If you don’t want
others involved in “drama” then don’t post it. If you don’t want other opinions
given to you, then keep it to yourself and don’t push them down other people’s
throats. If you don’t want people you hate watching your page, then stay off
the internet. Is internet drama stressing you out? Then keep the damn drama
offline and learn to ignore something than whine about it every chance you get.
How stupid can people be to not grasp these concepts? IGNORE and REPORT (if
it’s harassment).Geez, how hard is that for people to do?
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