All my life I have been sensitive where words really hurt me, and after 22 (my age) that seems to not change. The only thing I have changed is masking my tears and hiding the pain where others can not view it, why? Because all my life people hated upon me for my sensitivity, and the other day in an disagreement that led to a bad argument (over something trivial) a person told me I should "leave my emotions at the door" and be "thick-skinned" just because I got angry with him when he insulted me by his "truth" in what supposed to be a simple disagreement over opinions.
As always what I say in MY blog is my opinions and my thoughts about others. If you don't like it then too damn bad, go somewhere else to read. I'm sorry but people like to argue with me and don't know when to shut up when I say I want to stop arguing.
First off, what's wrong with being sensitive? Why is it such a taboo to people that they believe we are weak just because we get hurt easily? Sensitive people are only human and we do live upon our emotions. Without emotions all you are is a cold person who don't know how to feel, and in order to understand someone you must try feeling what they feel. Put yourself in others shoes first to feel and to think logically. The sensitive people have the biggest hearts because we care so much about others we will rarely bring you down, but those who don't care for emotions are very quick to harm another believing their words are "true".
Secondly, you can think logically and have emotions too. Emotions equal passion about something making you determined to stand up for you beliefs, and the logic helps you overcome you obstances regardless of the argument at hand. I will never "leave my emotions at the door" simply because I refuse to be cold towards another and give up on what I believe when I still disagree. When I disagree it doesn't mean I refuse to believe you simply because "i don't want to", no, it means I just don't agree with what you are saying, and if you call me names because of it like "being blind to the core" then you just proved you are an arrogant asshole. People can agree to disagree, and that has nothing to do with emotions, it simply means accepting that each person disagrees and move on with something else. but if you damn continue arguing then that proves your emotions are taking control since you can't accept someone thinks differently than you. So who's the emotional one now?
Thirdly, don't damn ever compare yourself to me when I state a problem such as "i been bullied" because despite that you been bullied too, does not mean you know what i went through. I got bullied because I was sensitive and "weak", and i seriously doubt you know how that feels by simply saying "i was bullied too but i learned to deal with it" bullshit! No one should ever learn to "deal with it" because bullying is wrong! Bashing is wrong! And no one is allowed to bash immaturly then bash another person for disagreeing with them! Yes, I am sensitive where words harm me but I'm also mature enough to hold my temper where I speak kindly and want to end the argument which you seem to not want to stop. Your "tough-skin" has clouded your judgement as a human being where you have to insult someone just to prove your point. that's really immature and you, sir, are an asshole.
I am sick and damn tired of people hammering on me just because I'm not "tough-skinned" enough to handle things that upset me. That is just who I am, I was born this way and i'll probably always be this way. But that gives you no right to insult me over it. I tried changing so many times, to stop caring and lock up these harmful emotions, but I keep failing cause I keep crying. I hate crying because others put in my mind that I am weak because of it, so I beat myself up even more trying not to damn cry! It's stressful and frustrating! Why must I change to please you? Why can't people just accept me as me? I have became so confused to what I should do that I am broken inside.
And I can't simply "ignore" an argument that strikes me because it's in my nature to always defend/protect when someone insults me any way. But I can only take so much were I get upset and flusttered where I cannot defend myself well, and what's worse is I'm all alone in these battles because others wish me to simply "ignore it" "learn from it" or they don't show up in time to help me. Then I get depressed for being sensitive where I cannot simply defend myself, and the help that I need i get refused. am I really that pathetic? I really do wish I could lock my emotions away sometimes so people will stop harming me so much...but I fear that will never happen and i'm stuck being hurt all the time and no one can help me. No one can help because there is no way they can.
I'm a sensitive person. Either accept it or please leave me the fuck alone... I am already broken from others, what else you going to do to me?
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